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Home Sweet Home! What is home?

4/20/2014

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What is home?

Since this is the Nomad Perspective…let’s talk about what makes home, home. 

If you asked me when I was 11 where home was, I very confidently would have replied, Calgary and more importantly, my house on Chatham Place.  At that time there was no doubt in my mind that I would live there until university.  So, when my family and I moved to the other side of the world, to a strange, unfamiliar place, Bangkok, Thailand, I started to question where home was.  Could Calgary still be my home even though I didn’t live on Chatham Place? 

Well, now that I am older (no need to specify how much older), I can say that I feel that I have many homes.  Can we have more than one home?  Is the only place we can call home, the place where our permanent address is?

There is that saying, “Home is where the heart is”.  Well based on that, my heart is in many different places.  I have family that live all over the world and I feel that my heart is also with them.  Parents in one time zone, a brother in another and then other family members scattered about.  I feel at home at my parents place in Thailand.  I feel at home in my hometown, Calgary, Alberta, and I feel at home in Honolulu, HI.  I also feel at home in Hilo, HI. 

I have moved houses, cities and countries many times.  Moved houses in the same city more than three times, in 5 years!  
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Home is where the heart is...my heart is in several different places!
I have learned how to not become attached to “things”, instead to focus on the intangibles, what I cannot see and touch, the things that I can feel and remember.  “Things” unfortunately get lost when you move around so much and a lot of the time there isn’t enough space to take all of the “things” with you, but that is not what is important.  This is not to say that I do not have “things” or don’t like “things” because I very much like “things” (shoes, bags, books) but it is much easier for me to part with them. 

At the end of the day, I feel that home is a place/environment where I have a connection with the place, with the people, with the culture – including food and history, and is where I feel comfortable and happy!  This sense of home, at this point in my life, is not associated with a specific structure but rather with the emotions and the memories created. 

What is your definition of home? 

Best, 

MJ

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Decoding the C O M P L I M E N T

4/2/2014

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When someone pays you a compliment, we have all at one time or another deflected it or we have just embraced it and accepted it.

It is hard to know what you should do. Michelle compliments Del,  "You look great today!" Del could respond to the compliment in many different ways.  One option would be to deflect the compliment by playing it down, "Oh this old thing." Or she could just say "Thank you!"  Which do you think is the most appropriate response?  

There are many interesting dimensions to how and why we receive compliments in a certain way.  There are also a variety of motivations for giving a compliment.  

The proper way to receive a compliment was definitely not taught at school!  There is a perception that if you just accept a compliment you are possibly vain or full of yourself, as some how "Thank you" translates to "Yeah, I do look good!"  However, it is about time to discuss whether this is a reasonable perception or not.

We all like to receive compliments.  It is positive reinforcement that we have done something "good" and that it is being recognized by our peers.  Whether you are looking for that positive reinforcement or not, having someone say something nice to you makes a person feel good.  


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    Michelle Jamieson 

    "Do something today that your future self will thank you for".  

    I dream of travel, food, fashion and culture. 

    Every day brings new challenges that I am excited to face with integrity, curiosity, determination and usually a great outfit! 

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